Tuesday, 16 September 2014

Alibaba on ''''the Nigerian woman and the challenges of finding Mr Right'' (MUST READ)

My mentor and friend, Alibaba discussed ''the Nigerian woman and the challenges of finding Mr Right''. ... and this piece from the lady's first speaks my mind (some married men/women who are in regret)...

#alibaba'sstory - I have a serious matter at hand that I want to share. In fact, I should have shared this long ago, but the primary message from a friend that prompted the matter, was lost in between the series of inbox messages from those strange girls that are looking for romantic friendships on Facebook.

In a nutshell, a lady friend sent me an inbox message on how it's harder to find a good man in Nigeria. And that the men who are "manageable" (her words, not mine) are so scarce and if you ever get them they are either married to a lady that does not deserve them or just repenting from a bad marriage from one of such women. Or even just lost faith in the whole marriage thing. 
I later ran into her at a club. After the usual introductions that have become common place with thesesocial media network of friends... (You are my friend on twitter, Facebook, Tango, INSTAGRAM... That kind of thing).... I chatted with her a bit and found out from what she told me, that, many women are now settling for anything in between MR Right, MR Not just ok and MR Nearly right. As she put it, it's now a case of looking at what a guy checks out in the top 10 box... And if he has 3 out of 10, snap him up... Work on the rest 7, if you are lucky, you can get him to add 3 more of those top10 qualities... And begin to pray it lasts for as long as you both can manage.

Much as I tried, to get her to rate me, she said, she can only rate someone who is on her radar. So ladies have relationship radar? Yes of course. You think you were not in Mary's radar, and she waited for you to come back after you... ? Ouch!!! (That was my guy who was listening in on our private conversation) I wasn't on Mary's radar.... I managed to mutter. Then she fooled you wellllll. She quickly added.

Thursday, 4 September 2014

Happy Birthday Beyonce (love and celebrate you).

Beyoncé is a force to reckon with in music and the world at large... Birthday girl is 33 today *3 gunshots salute for you*.

To admirers, she is on a different level from any other singer in the industry today.

She has truly contributed so much to the face of music in the world, women are more than not embracing music/arts.

Beyonce, i Zoe chinaka respect , love and celebrate you today, HAPPY BIRTHDAY QUEEN BEY :).

 photo beyday1.jpgOh, and remember when she brought feminism back to the big show?<p><br /></p>
<br /><p><br /></p>Happy 33rd Birthday, Bey! To celebrate the powerful pop star, we look back at 33 times Beyonce stole every headline possible. First up might be the cutest ever: When Blue Ivy presented her mother with her Video Vanguard award at the VMAs.

Sunday, 24 August 2014

WORD OF THE WEEK #GRATITUDE

“Let us be grateful to the people who make us happy; they are the charming gardeners who make our souls blossom.” 
― Marcel Proust

Thursday, 21 August 2014

'YES! I DO BRIDAL PRESENTS - 'RECEPTION, BRIDESMAIDS TREND 2014.

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Also get your bridesmaids... in the next post....